another threat......

[dreamer]

hi guys,

thanks so much for the advice and reassurance on my last thread, you really helped put my mind at ease at what we were going to face.

i havent got back to anyone yet, as ive just got out of hospital. i had some heavy bleeding with clots on wednesday, was admitted to hospital on the thursday to find my cervix open with my waters bulging and my little babys leg basically hanging in there.

i was rushed to theatre to have a stitch put in (mcdonald suture) and i just got out of hospital today.

has anyone had one of these sutures? im getting a lot of pain in my lower tummy i was just wondering if this was normal?!

anyway, thought i had better update

Dreamer
xxxx

[Jill]

Oh, no Dreamer! What a scare! I don't have any experience with that, but I wish you lots of luck and calmness for the rest of your pregnancy.

[Dodger67]

Hang in there! Hope there are no further surprises.
How many weeks to go?

[dreamer]

Oh, no Dreamer! What a scare! I don't have any experience with that, but I wish you lots of luck and calmness for the rest of your pregnancy.

thanks Jill, i really hope so too, im so scared of things going wrong now ive got my head around my little ones possible problems.

Hang in there! Hope there are no further surprises.
How many weeks to go?

thanks dodger, im 17 weeks now, so still a far way to go, but every day baby is inside is a bonus i guess.

[Makennasmom]

My cervix was putruding out off and on, for a couple of months early in my pregnancy. I had stay off my feet and keep them up as much as I could. It got better as the baby grew it pulled everything back into place. He (obgyn) had talked with me about the stitch, but we didn't have to do it. I never had any heavy bleeding or anything like that though. I had several scares with preterm labor (I was on shots from week 16 to delivery to keep me from going into labor) If I were expierencing any pain or cramping I would go back to the doctor, better to get it checked out. At least call and tell them what you are expierencing, and see if they want you to go back to be checked out.

Please keep us updated on how everything is going. Good luck.

[dreamer]

My cervix was putruding out off and on, for a couple of months early in my pregnancy. I had stay off my feet and keep them up as much as I could. It got better as the baby grew it pulled everything back into place. He (obgyn) had talked with me about the stitch, but we didn't have to do it. I never had any heavy bleeding or anything like that though. I had several scares with preterm labor (I was on shots from week 16 to delivery to keep me from going into labor) If I were expierencing any pain or cramping I would go back to the doctor, better to get it checked out. At least call and tell them what you are expierencing, and see if they want you to go back to be checked out.

Please keep us updated on how everything is going. Good luck.

hiya

thank you, ive just phoned them as i was just layed in bed and i think my waters may be leaking :( so am off to delivery suite. think this may be the beginning of the end :(

[misty]

I'm so sorry, Dreamer. If this truly turns out to be the end, know that you are still welcome to come here for love and support. Hugs.

[LisaJoy]

Prayers going up for you, dreamer.

[Ziggy]

praying for you and your baby

[Lifeisgood]

I am praying for you all as well.

[ainemc]

Will say a prayer. I started bleeding a few days after i found out about my daughter's sb. I was 20weeks pregnant and thought I was going into labour, but all was ok. Will be thinking of you xx

[hotwheels]

Prayers going your way. * hugs *.

[Dodger67]

Prayers going your way. * hugs *.

Seconded! :happy065:

[Kat]

Praying for you and your little one. My mom had a friend when I was younger that went into really early labor. Her water broke at about 18 weeks and they kept her in the hospital and kept putting fluid inside her uterus for about 2 weeks to give the baby extra time to grow. They also were giving the baby steroids to mature the lungs. This worked until she developed a fever, and they had to let her deliver. Fortunately that little 1 lb baby boy is now 16 and doing great! I pray for a similar outcome for your little one!

[dreamer]

Praying for you and your little one. My mom had a friend when I was younger that went into really early labor. Her water broke at about 18 weeks and they kept her in the hospital and kept putting fluid inside her uterus for about 2 weeks to give the baby extra time to grow. They also were giving the baby steroids to mature the lungs. This worked until she developed a fever, and they had to let her deliver. Fortunately that little 1 lb baby boy is now 16 and doing great! I pray for a similar outcome for your little one!

hiya

thanks so much for all your thoughts and prayers, unfortunately my little one was born at 11.28am 4th April 2011 weighing 5oz @ 17+4 weeks gestation.

i had my stitch removed at 7.45am that same day and labour progressed.

thank you all so much for your kind words over the past week or so, this past 10 days or so have been such a roller coaster, from finding out my little angel had spina bifida, to then finding out my cervix was open and having an emergency stitch put in, to then going into labour. i cant believe what has happened, im in complete bits, just dont know what to do with myself or how to deal with these. this is the second loss, my first loss was a little girl with anencephaly in 2002, never for one second did i think it could happen again, im devastated.

[Jill]

Oh my gosh Dreamer. I'm so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. I'll be praying for strength and peace for you. :(

[janjanwhit]

i am so sorry for your loss. you are such a good mum and your little angel was loved so much. i will be praying that they are at peace and for you to stay strong.

[hotwheels]

My thoughts and prayers are with you today. Know that your children are in Gods caring hands now. He will love them just as you loved them. I pray that your heart will heal soon.

[tamcginnis]

So very sorry for your loss and suffering. I hope that one day you can find peace with what has happened. My heart goes out to you and I'll pray for you!

[Makennasmom]

Dreamer, I am so sorry. My heart goes out to you. You will be in my prayers.

[LisaJoy]

Oh, dreamer, I'm heartbroken for you. Praying for you to experience peace.

[Ziggy]

I'm so sorry.

[Lifeisgood]

I am so sorry to hear the news Dreamer. Wishing you blessings of peace and comfort as you continue to hold your little ones close to your heart.

[Papillon]

Prayers going your way. * hugs *.

Ditto from me. I was so sorry to read your news.

[ainemc]

I'm so sorry :( Will be thinking of you. Sending lots of hugs your way xxx

[Amanda_Dougherty]

I am soo sorry, your little angel is in peace with her sister, lots of love and prayers your way xxxxxx

[Kat]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I know there are no words that can ease your pain, but I will continue to pray that God eases your pain and brings peace into your heart.

[jveprek]

I am so, so sorry :(. I pray for peace during this difficult time.

[Dodger67]

Also wishing you peace :happy065:

[Amnada]

Dreamer I am so sorry to hear about your loss.
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

[n3rdchik]

I am so sorry. I am thinking of you and your little girl.

[Babyboo36]

So sorry Dreamer, I've only just seen this. My thoughts are with you xxxxx

[sbmama]

I'm so sorry.